How to get your love back

How to win your love back based on my personal experience

Once upon a time… and no, this is not a fairy tale. This is my own story – of a real person who loved with all his heart and then… got heartbroken. How to get your love back

I remember the last year of college. I saw her for the first time in the library – glasses in her eyes, a book in her hand, and a smile that seemed to melt all the tensions of the world in her smile. First we became friends, then we talked and I didn’t even realize when we fell in love.

But love is not just about chocolates and romantic songs. Life took a turn when our paths parted. We had a fight… and then… silence. No calls, no messages.

“I had lost her – and myself too.”

But the story doesn’t end here.

Have you ever stood at such a turn when you feel that “I wish she comes back”? Maybe you still check his WhatsApp last seen every day, watch his Insta stories, or your heart yearns to hear his voice again.

If yes, then this article is for you. I will not sell you any false dreams. I will tell you only those things which I myself learned – some mistakes, some lessons and some small steps through which I found my love again.

Don’t lose yourself – love yourself

The first and most crucial thing is to love who you are.

After he left me, I had stopped looking at myself in the mirror. I could neither do my hair nor did I feel like eating anything. But gradually I understood – until I do not love myself, why will he love me?

You have to take care of yourself first. Reach your full potential on all levels—emotionally, cognitively, and physically. When you start valuing yourself, the world will too – and maybe he too.

Contact break is necessary – stay away for a few days

This is the most difficult step – not talking to him/her. But it is equally important.
Calling, messaging, or stalking on social media all the time – this will only make you more vulnerable.

“Let the space do the magic.”
When you give yourself some time, you will be able to think clearly and the other person will also start missing you.

Whose mistake was it – think honestly

No relationship breaks one-sidedly. Whatever has happened, sit down once and think honestly – “Did I also make some mistake?”
If yes, then accept it. Apologize – from the heart, with a bow, without ego.

“Sorry” is the greatest strength, not a weakness. How to get your love back

Communicate properly

If you have decided that you want to try again, then talk to the other person – but lovingly, without anger or accusation.How to get your love back

You can say something like this:

“I know what happened was not good. But I still respect you. If you ever want to talk, I am always here.”

That’s it!

That’s enough.

No pressure, no dialogue.

 Make time for yourself and your loved ones.

Sometimes things that leave you return only to reappear. How to get your love back

You just have to be patient.

When I got my love back, it didn’t happen in a day. It took months – to change myself, to understand her, and to rebuild trust.

What if she doesn’t come back?

To be honest?

I saw myself being afraid of that question – “What if she doesn’t come back?”

But then I realized… if she is happy without coming back, then my true love would be to be happy in her happiness.

Love is more than merely acquiring. It is about letting go occasionally.

Totka, Upay, and Belief – Helpful or Fraud?

Many people go for vashikaran, black magic, or to some baba at this time. I went too. And to be honest, some things give peace of mind – but no remedy works without hard work.

If you want, you can consult an experienced astrologer or guidance expert, but it will work only if you yourself try with all your heart.

Finally – A Small Dua

If you are reading this and have lost someone – then here is a prayer from my side:

“May you either get your love back – or love yourself so much that you don’t need anyone else.”

How was your experience?

Has anyone ever been lost and then found again?

Or are you still trying?

Do tell me. I want to know your story. Because maybe, your story can become hope for someone else.