How to get your ex girlfriend back after a breakup
I’ll be honest with you… the first time I tried to win an ex back, I embarrassed myself so much that even my future kids would feel the second-hand shame.
I sent long paragraphs, deleted them, re-wrote them, cried over old photos, and even stared at my phone like it owed me answers. If heartbreak had a membership card, I would’ve been a platinum member.
If you’re here right now, I get it. Breakups feel like someone suddenly switched off the light in a room you were still standing in. One second you’re laughing together, the next you’re Googling things like “Why does love hurt this much?”
And then slowly… the thought that keeps circling your head: “Can I get her back?”
Let’s talk like two people going through real-life chaos, not textbooks.
OP Shastri, who has spent years helping couples fix the impossible, always says one thing:
“Pyaar kabhi mita nahi karta, bas beech raaste kahin ulajh jaata hai.”
So let’s untangle it, step by step.
1. First ask yourself: do you really want her back?
Sounds strange, right?
But honestly… is it love? Or is it the sudden silence that feels unbearable?
Ask your heart:
“Do I miss her, or just the way her presence made everything feel softer?”
Once you’re sure, then let’s move ahead.
2. Don’t beg, don’t chase… breathe.
I know it’s tempting to send a 2 am text saying,
“I miss you… please talk to me.”
But no relationship has ever been saved by guilt.
Give her space.
Give yourself space.
Let the dust settle.
It hurts, but it’s necessary.
3. Work on yourself quietly
You don’t have to turn into a gym model or a poet overnight.
Just fix the things you know were messy — your temper, your insecurity, your overthinking, your lack of time, whatever it was.
Girls notice improvements.
And trust me, genuine change speaks louder than 100 “sorry” messages.
4. Reconnect in a soft, natural way
Instead of a dramatic confession, try something simple like:
“Hey, I hope you’re doing alright.”
Short. Calm. No emotional tsunami.
Let her feel you’ve grown. Let her feel safe.
5. Let memories work in your favour
Women don’t forget emotions.
The moments you made her laugh, supported her, surprised her — they stay.
Your energy should remind her of that old comfort.
Not pressure… warmth.
6. Don’t bring up the breakup in every conversation
You don’t need to repeat,
“Can we get back together?”
That pushes her away.
Talk normally. Show maturity.
Let her feel you’re no longer carrying the heavy emotional baggage.
7. When the time is right, express your heart
And say it like a human, not a dramatic film hero.
Something like:
“I’ve realised a lot. I care about what we had. If you ever feel we can rebuild it slowly, I’m here.”
Gentle. Honest. No drama.
8. If the emotional blockage feels too strong — this is where OP Shastri helps
Sometimes love doesn’t break because of big things.
Sometimes it’s timing. Ego. Miscommunication.
Sometimes invisible energies block the connection.
OP Shastri uses ancient methods to bring back emotional harmony between partners.
He helps remove negativity, create understanding, and rebuild attraction and trust.
People from around the world reach him when nothing else works.
If your situation feels stuck, or she’s moving away from you completely, a personalised astrological solution can guide you back to her heart.
Because some relationships deserve healing.
Final thought
Look, love isn’t maths.
It’s messy, confusing, beautiful and painful — all in one go.
Trying to get your ex-girlfriend back doesn’t make you weak.
It makes you human.
And if your heart is still holding her name… then fight for it.
Calmly.
Wisely.
With real effort.
And if needed, with OP Shastri’s guided support.
You don’t have to walk through heartbreak alone.
You just need the right path.