Beginning – Remembering lost love

Lost love back in Andheri.Walking on dark, traffic-filled roads, we had once seen her together. Heart beats used to get faster when that same smile was in front of us. But suddenly everything changed – a fight, a distance, and then… that love was lost somewhere.

Now the question is: can that love be brought back? Absolutely! But understanding, patience and belongingness are needed.

Self-reflection – Identify your mistakes
Why did this fight happen?

Did I do something that hurt her?

Did I hurt her feelings?

Look within yourself. Identifying the flaws and deciding to correct them is the first step. Only when you bring a change in yourself, will someone notice your change.

Dealing with emotions – Take care of yourself

Pain, sadness, anger – all were there during that time. In such a situation, it is important to take care of yourself. Meditation, yoga, journaling – these methods can be very helpful. You are not the stone – considering yourself weak only leads to more weakness.

The right way of communication – the first step is not direct

In the crowd of darkness, a message, a touching conversation means a lot. In the beginning:

A simple “How are you?”

A small message “How was your day?”

This is just the beginning. In the second step, gradually bring the conversation closer to the heart – tell him what you felt, what you improved.

Honesty – Tell your heart openly

“I understand that my words used to hurt you…”

“I am truly sorry for what I did…”

Believe me, the power of truth is greater than any magic.

Three dimensions of improvement

A) Personal development

Adopt new hobbies – painting, music, reading. Be the source of your own happiness.

B) Improvement in relationships

Small gifts, cooking her favourite dish, spending quality time together – all these show that you care.

C) Professional responsibility

Show changes at the office, cafe or workplace in Andheri – punctuality, excellence in work.

Reconnect – Sweet start of meetings

After a text or call, talk about a get-together.

Go to a coffee shop in Andheri, Chowpatty or beach and spend some time together.

Goal: Not far, just a little closer.

Increase the level of communication – Trust of togetherness

There will be direct conversations – “I wanted to tell you this…”
There should be no small hesitation, just clear, simple communication. See her reaction to your change – your real transformation will be seen here.

Sweetness of old memories

The fountain in Andheri, the samosas at Chowpatty, that journey in the train – why not relive all this?

Revisiting the place again and again brings back old memories.

Patience – The golden mantra

“Don’t rush.”

She will believe in time when you see her change.

A one-day fight may be worth it, but it may take months to see a difference.

Self-care – Keep yourself full

Healthy food,

Morning refreshment,

Breakfast,

Get enough sleep,

Keep yourself energized by adding some color or decoration to your home.

When you are fine, everything feels fine.

Remedies – Directional steps

Hopeful communication: First message after 7 days.

Gift full of compassion: A letter, flowers, book.

Career improvement: Bring a new project to the office.

Spend selective time together every day: 30 minutes of conversation, 10 minutes of silence.

Vastu or psychological support: Create an atmosphere at home with a little positive energy, sweet colors.

Second time beginning – Relationship renewal

Tell her clearly what you want – friendship, love, support.

Also tell her that you feel incomplete without her.

Love is a journey, not a destination

Every day is a step – never stop, never lie, never avoid the truth. Love is difficult to get, but even more difficult to handle.

End – with new changes

Why her smile of darkness does not return again, it depends on you.

‘Lost love back’ example can be made only if your efforts are deep.

FAQs (Frequently Asked Questions)

1. Was it my first mistake, still should I try?

Yes, if love is spoiled without full effort, then it must be repaired.

2. What to do if she does not reply?

Message again after 5 days, but without pressure, just by asking the question – “How is work going?”

3. Should you ask a friend for help?

If you understand that a friend can help effectively, then it is okay. But keep in mind the technique that he should be a helper and not a spy.

4. Should you be active on Facebook or Insta?

Yes, but with a little balance. Being too active can also have adverse effects.

5. What if he/she has fallen in love with someone else?

Stay within your limits. If so, it would be wise to move on.

Conclusion

The dark streets, those raindrops and the power of your smile, how to bring everything back again? Responsibility is your step, translation – all these things resonate in your effort. Work on yourself, manage communication, and maintain patience. Love can return in its unique form, but for that your preparation, honesty and trust are most important.